Once you've got a date or have gotten past kissing, things should be easy, but in my recent experience, it can be fragile. I think you can help.

I tend to be too aloof sometimes - I may wait too long to text or act too distant, and then can't set up another date. Or I'll start to act more attached than I should, and then get snubbed. I am starting to feel like I'm on a tightrope trying to show the right amount of openness and investment. I know I should feel a lot more freedom. Has anyone been through this, and how have you handled it?