Want to get my thoughts out on this and get some feedback from you all before I hit the field tonight. After recently overhauling my wardrobe, getting fit, and going to a stylist I'm having a much harder time not getting tagged by girls as LTR material. This causes several immediate problems. Paramount is dealing with massive amounts of ASD.

For example; I went out to a couple clubs last night, the first of which I opened an HB8 who ended up following our group for the remainder of the night. Couple hours in and I k-closed HB8. Up until this point everything was going fine but it only got weirder post kiss. So we're closing out the night and I grab a taxi, push HB8 in and jump in after her. She immediately tells the driver to take us to her house. We exchange glances and I'm pretty confident I have this in the bag. We reach her house and she drags me into her room and things start getting heated. It is at this point the ASD kicks in, we're both completely naked and she starts talking up how she has to stop because she "really likes me" and doesn't want to start things off on the wrong foot in our RELATIONSHIP.

One thing you all have taught me is to always be clear in your intentions and leave them better than you found them. So instead of pushing forward and ignoring her concerns and sealing the night I explained how I am not currently looking for a relationship and things quickly went south.

Repeat this previous scenario several times over the last month and it is beginning to really bother me. I'm not sure if it's the look I have or the vibe I put out. How am I supposed to overcome these specific types of situations while still leaving them better? Am I targeting the wrong women? Is there a way to avoid any confusion up front to weed out these kinds of situations?

Help me out Seddit, I know my situation is not unique.