met a girl at a bar. went on a lunch date. she told me I was a great friend.

puaCurveBall · 2014-04-02T22:18:58+00:00

This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl

I believe the term "Friendzone" applies to your question, I URGE you to read this post.

This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT)

DamienDieckeSOA · 2014-04-02T22:14:35+00:00

Yeah it's not the best situation for you to be in. In short, you were friend zoned obviously, although chick talking about a crappy ex boyfriend doesn't necessarily mean that. That conversation has had numbers times before I've had a one night stand.

You have 2 options though from here.

1) Tell her you want her physically and you don't make friends with someone you like that way, and see how she responds. Sometimes it can end up with a FWB type of relationship.

2) Tell her she can be your friend, but she has to be your wing-woman :)

Why not make sure of the fact you are at least getting along well with this girl. If you can't have sex with her, maybe she can still be a good friend to have for other reasons.

Title	met a girl at a bar. went on a lunch date. she told me I was a great friend.
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Date	April 2, 2014 10:02 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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