Can someone give me a start to asking a girl out that I see as attractive, say a girl at the mall for example?

_var_log_messages · 2014-04-10T16:03:56+00:00

Easy!

Walk up to her. Confidently! None of this shoulders shrugged, eyes on the ground bullshit. You own this mall, you pay the fucking bills, so you can walk up and talk to anyone in your mall if you want to.
Tell her you noticed her earlier and you thought you would come up and say hi. DO NOT approach her from behind or the side where she can't see you coming. By the time you walk up to her, you will have made eye contact, expressed your confidence through body language, and smiled at her. She will know right away if you're worth talking to.
Small talk that evolves into conversation. For malls and other things, the obvious question is "what are you doing here today?" Find out who she's with right away because seriously, who the fuck goes to the mall by themselves? She's with her parents/girlfriends/boyfriend/meeting a drug dealer so be prepared for that.
Your best bet in this case is insta-date. Tell her you wanted to check out this [cafe/ice cream/coffee] place that you walked by earlier, and that she should join you. Note: try not to make it an option. Not that you're forcing her to do something, but you want to state this proposition in a manner so that she doesn't have to think too much. So say "I'm going here, I want you to come with me". If she agrees, you're golden. She won't right away though. Don't scare the cat. Keep talking to her, and start walking. You can guide her a little bit. I usually say something like "let's get out of the way here" and move to a secluded spot.
She's busy. She's at the mall for a reason, probably not to meet the love of her life, so respect that. If she doesn't want to have coffee or whatever with you, it's her loss. Get her number and move on from there.

This has worked for me in the past, so hopefully you can glean something to it.

For me, day game boils down to being as charming and fun as I possibly can within about 5 minutes. You can't sit and talk her ear off all day, the window for opportunity is the size of a postage stamp.

Title	Can someone give me a start to asking a girl out that I see as attractive, say a girl at the mall for example?
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Date	April 9, 2014 8:21 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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