TL;DR-fulfilled life long dream in first step of becoming a dom.

Guys I ave officially begun my first step into the world of being a dom in BDSM. Starting now are my accounts in this blog. I will be posting more but this subredit has helped me out tremendously. So thank you so much for all your work in organizing this.

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I had just gotten out of a 2 year relationship. I needed to explore this side of me. Right now I have a beautiful women in my bed and another one at my beck and call and they both came onto me I did not come onto them. This is everything I have dreamed of since I was a kid, This is my story into how I became a Dom and a guide for any dom. There is no advice on any column for beginners so I am having to project that I have done this a million times before and I do this all the time while I stumble through. I also suffer with some severe depressive symptoms, and a lot of soical anxiety/consciousness and still have begun my journey in this life. this is something I have always fantasized about even since I was a child so follow your dreams.

As I said before there is no good guide for this for beginners. I hope this blog serves as a lesson and I will describe the core features later on how to get here.

What gives me the most power as a dom is to not be persuaded by their sex. You can not let it control you. That is why women are so turned on by d-bags and guys who don’t want them. The woman I am with literally got her deepest fantasy tonight. Someone who would fuck her rough and not be afraid. I spanked her out front in my apartment. The reason being she could not control me with her sex. She would constantly disobey and need disciplining (which she wanted) but made it tougher to train her. For a first timer I think I did well (I had dabbled in this side in my LTR’s with 3 other women; only other women I have slept with). She tried so hard but I kept a good grip on her until I decided training was over for tonight (and it was time to fuck her!) Let me give you some back story onto how this happened.

Last Saturday I met a slave. She did not know it yet and neither did I. She came onto me began flirting with me. we got to dancing and then making out on the couch. I felt her belly button ring and asked if she was naughty. She immediately told me about BDSM. I asked her role and she said switch and I told her I top (about 90% of the time.) This led to us talking more as we made out.. I began to order her around and have her call me sir. She was not allowed to kiss me unless I said so or anything. She unfortunately was super busy and would not go home wiht a stranger she just met. For the next week we talked a bit but our schedules didn’t work. so what ended up happening was we began talking today and I told her she has to always call me sir. A few texts later she forgets “strike one” I reply. eventually again and again until Strike 3. I tell her she will be punished but she will have to wait. I made another counter with two strikes. We met up for the party and split up would see each other split up. She slipped up two more times that night at the party not calling me sir. I let it go knowing I was going to do something to her later. Later I see her with a guy and he is flirting. she pulls me aside and tells me “Sir he is flirting with me”. I simply say go ahead. I did not give a single fuk. they went to the dancefloor eventually i noticed and i told her to grind up on him and she did. I left and went about the party and return to see them there. I grind behind her and ask if she wants to make out with him. she says “Yes” so I allow her and I leave. I come back later and tell her to stop and she stops kissing him. Complete Obedience I love that in a girl. she continues dancing while he keeps trying and i leave. i come back and ask her if she still wants to make out with him and she says yes. I tell her yes then lean back in and say “No you didn’t obey me” and once again she submitted.

During the evening I wound up on the dance floor. This gorgeous blond sees me and I get the look and she immediately begins dancing seductively. (literally could tell she saw me and eye banged me within two seconds of making eye contact for the first time. I love eye sex) we dance and begin making out in a pantry while we talk dirty. My slave sees this and is clearly jealous. the hot blond offers me to taker her home. I agree. I go to check on my slave and to tell her our plans we have been dying to have are off. i expect anger but instead she says i’m jealous sir. seeing my opportunity i lean in and say this is what you get for fogetting to call me sir and you are not allowed to hook up with anyone tonight. (I imagine she hasn’t as its 5 am right now.)

There is more to come as I walk back to my place with the hot blond.

-Dom