So recently I tried wakeboarding. It was my first time and my buddy invited me to come along to the cable park. Unfortunately for us (and me specifically) only the advanced park was available that day. It was my first day and I was about to embarress myself in front of people who were literally doing flips and shit.

Yet what happened was they all taught me, but instead of telling me everything at once. They gave me one step at a time. First it was just how to get up. and even when I fell, They pointed out the wrong and gave me each tip one bit at a time rather than all at once. Soon enough after 30 minutes I could ride from one end to the other and turn around without having to fall into the water.

Where I am going with this is I think I should use this approach to approach woman. Often I try to apply every single principle I've read here, yet come up short. I have no one mastered any bit and if I try one part at a time such as kino, inner game, or just overcoming AA then I think I will start to see improvements. Definitely not in the 30 minutes I saw with wake boarding but I'll probably see the progression.