I think I'm the bitch that friendzoned him. Need advice.

puaCurveBall · 2014-05-03T23:02:26+00:00

I would still prefer to remain friends

You aren't friends. He is YOUR friend, and you are HIS love interest.

Any normal guy would have moved on 3 years ago...

I just don't want to be that type of girl.

Regardless of whether you WANT to be, you are that type of girl. I don't think this is a bad thing, I think you are just a normal person who doesn't expect someone to be pining away at a fantasy for 3 years and can't accept that a girl just isn't into them.

I would buy him the book "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by dr glover... it isn't pickup and it might help him.

In the meantime, I think you should have a talk with him that you are not, have not, and WILL NEVER be interested in him romantically, regardless of how nice a guy he is. Don't feel guilty about this or try to back yourself up with reasons. You simply aren't into him, that is as complex as it is.

You have no obligations to like anyone... why are you hating yourself about it? christ....

puaCurveBall · 2014-05-03T22:58:40+00:00

This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / guy

I believe the term "Friendzone" applies to your question, I URGE you to read this post.

This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT)

Title	I think I'm the bitch that friendzoned him. Need advice.
Author	upupandthrowaway12
Upvotes	2
Comments	2
Date	May 3, 2014 10:22 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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