I was wondering if there are any swingers in here, and if you could recommend any reading material for game that is specific to the context of swinging.

My SO and I had a few successful encounters with other couples at lifestyle parties, and I feel like there are some nuances in swinging that call for a somewhat different approach than is used in "normal" game.

The tricky part is we are a younger couple, and in our city there really isn't a venue that hosts swinger parties where young people would go to, do I'd like to have a way of opening with couples outside of swinging context...

Any thoughts?