Hi Seddit,

I've been reading this reddit and really trying to improve my life in other ways in the last couple of months. I'm especially trying to improve myself in the body language department. Feeling confidant about myself, touching people and looking at people directly. I'm trying to incorporate this in my everyday life and trying to get comfortable with always doing this. I'm starting to feel like its some kind of magical power that I never knew existed!

I immediately started to notice a positive change in the interaction with women, but also in the interaction with other men.

It does work a lot better on some people then others, I feel this has something to do with people who are confidant and secure about themselves are not intimidated by this, and people who are not somehow want to impress me and start acting very different. But maybe this is all in my head and I only notice it because I'm now paying attention to it.

Another thing is I feel i'm getting/sending a gay vibe to 1 or 2 men doing this. I have known these people for a while and their reaction to my sudden switch in attitude towards them is very noticeable. Am I sending them signals that I'm interested in them? Or are they just overly positive to me doing this? Does any else have any experience with this?

I'm not really comfortable with this, but I don't want to go back to my old ways :)