Hey peeps,

I have been out in the field quite a few times, I am able to get numbers, make-outs, one night stands and even a meet up afterwards...

My problem is that I somehow lose that initial attraction from the night after meeting them (I do drink so that might be reason why) Two times now I have went out for a friend to meet the girl and her friends and for some reason the girl is more interested in my friend and he hasn't even spoken much to her. I do try to keep flirty with the girl I'm trying to seduce but I end up not being taken seriously (I think).

I do keep the eye contact and touching as well as make good conversations in person. As soon as it comes to text I'm quite blunt and as soon as I meet them again I'm back into my flirty and playful side again. (I don't know if this is a good thing or not).

Can anyone help me improve on this as my friend keeps getting the girls interested after i initially make them interested in me, which to be honest is kind of a confidence killer atm.