How to deal with more conservative girls?

2014-08-04T22:58:06+00:00

So here was my original question, I thought I'd put it in the comments so it wouldn't get removed.

A good friend of mine in my first year of college invited some of her friends to visit and I ended up meeting them back in January, really cool people. One of these girls, let's call her Carly, is one of the most attractive girls I've ever seen in my life, and we got along really well when she was visiting. She's outgoing with just the right amount of shy and really nice to be with, an all-around sweetheart. After she left I haven't seen her since but she randomly added my on snapchat a few weeks later and we talk on and off, sometimes with many weeks of not-talking in between just because we have no reason to chat I guess.

For about a week now we've been snapchatting and talking constantly and I'm really enjoying it and she seems to be having fun with it as well. I'm pretty flirty at times and I throw jokes and compliments at her all the while and she reciprocates really well, telling me I look good or saying sweet and sometimes flirty compliments back to me. So I think I'm doing well and I hope to see her when college starts again, even though she goes to a different college than I do, but is somewhat close by.

My question is, how do I deal with more conservative girls? Our mutual friend told me after I mentioned to her how stunning her friend was that she's really religious and hasn't even kissed a guy yet. If she hadn't told me that I never would have guessed, since we talk like any other conversations I've had with girls that I'm trying to flirt with. She's even told our mutual friend that she thought I was attractive, back when she visited. I just want to know what the angle I'm supposed to take here is. What can I/can't I do or say?

TL;DR READ THE DAMN POST but girl I'm interested in is reportedly really conservative (hasn't kissed a guy etc.) but I never really got that vibe from her and we talk/flirt really well. What's the angle I'm supposed to take here through texting/snapping? I don't want to go too far.

shitsfuckedupalot · 2014-08-05T00:27:21+00:00

I guess I'm in a similar situation, but its really a question of how much time and work you're willing to put forth in the situation. Its safe to assume that it would take longer, so you have to ask yourself how far you're willing to go. I don't think its bad to be with someone with very different views than you, but its also assumed that you'd have to make compromises and sacrifices. Then again, people change a lot in college and you never know how much her friend knows. or how into you she is. However, you shouldn't really look at it as "how to deal" with someone. you should look at it as I like to hang out with this person and i'd like to get to know them better. I know this sub is called /r/seduction, but there isn't really a way to get a girl like that into the sack after one night, so you really have to decide for yourself what your priorities are.

acratophorus · 2014-08-05T00:56:47+00:00

This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl

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Title	How to deal with more conservative girls?
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Date	August 4, 2014 10:57 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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