Girl flirting back with me. Has boyfriend but says I do better. Is willing to come to my house and cuddle and watch movies. What should I do? Escalate? Go for a FWB relationship? Confused.

animalkingdom · 2014-08-05T06:47:01+00:00

This subreddit is kind of conflicted on this subject. On one hand, it is kind of bad to steal someone's girlfriend or get her to cheat on him with you. You could argue, though, that if she's willing to put herself into that situation, then she clearly doesn't value the relationship that much and even if you don't escalate things with her, somebody will. You're also doing the guy a favor; as shitty as it is to be cheated on, it's probably better that he finds out who she really is before he invests more into the relationship.

One thing though: do not get into a serious relationship with this girl. She will cheat on you just like she cheated on him.

2014-08-05T06:38:30+00:00

Don't do it. It's a shitty thing to do and there are millions of single women out there that can be picked up. Find a different one.

Saarpa · 2014-08-05T06:58:10+00:00

My advice is this, if she's willing to cheat what stops her for cheating on you? Find a girl that has proper values.

ArcticFrosty · 2014-08-05T06:33:25+00:00

If it's not going to cause any problems that will make you regret it, and you can look at yourself in the mirror after sweeping this girl from the other guy, I say go forth and let the dark side flow through you.

recyclablebantha · 2014-08-05T07:11:07+00:00

Girl flirting back with me. Has boyfriend but says I do better.

Okay. So she has a boyfriend and doesn't have the "balls" to end it even though she's over it. Unless they have an open relationship.

Is willing to come to my house and cuddle and watch movies.

What? Did she specifically say this? How did this come up?

What should I do? Escalate? Go for a FWB relationship? Confused.

How should we know? This is YOUR call, man. You've got to be able to decide things like this on your own. We can't tell you.

What do you REALLY want?

She told me he doesn't make her feel like she matters but that I do.....She also said she's willing to let me go down on her.....More conflict...

So she's with someone she doesn't want to be with but values herself so little that she cant' break up with him. How is this attractive? You've got to see to yourself if you value yourself so little that a girl like this attracts you.

To be honest, if you had the confidence and wherewithal to NOT get caught up in her manipulative bullshit, you wouldn't be posting this and you wouldn't be conflicted. It sounds like you need to run the other way and gather any friends you can to watch over you and distract you so you can't be alone with that girl. Because if you were going to have a fling, that'd be one thing, but this girl is going to twist you into a knot and leave you a wreck.

recyclablebantha · 2014-08-05T07:12:12+00:00

This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl.

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Also, don't worry about it! You didn't do anything wrong since you didn't know

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