First off I'll let you know I'm 24 and still a virgin; I know it may not be a big deal but just getting it out of the way so that you don't think I'm a master PUA or something.

Recently I got to befriend a "natural" guy and thanks to what I have read in r/seduction (mainly having my inner-game in check, conveying confindence) he has been inviting me whenever he goes out to the club.

So this night we went out to some club and within 10 minutes of us getting a table and drinks, my friend had already picked up a girl (let's call her Diana) next to us (who he said he already knew and fucked). She had friends with her, HB8 and HB6.

Anyways, I gotta let you know that meanwhile, I was dancing to the electronic music not giving a single fuck and easily being 2-3 "power levels" above the entire venue. Important to note that this is the first time I got enough space to dance comfortably. I'm not afraid of giving it my all when dancing.

So as I said, I was giving quite a show. I noticed people looking at me, however I have to accept I did not try to make eye contact (I was too entranced in the music). This still seemed to work though.

I will describe everything exactly as it happened and I'll ask questions afterwards.

First girl: Suddenly, an HB7 girl on a table next to us full of guys (who I assume were either friendzoned or gay...) started dancing just next to me. I noticed she was keeping some distance. So shortly after I grabbed her by the hip and asked for her name. I wanted to get some kino in so I said "I will teach you how to dance, come closer". She complied but for a very short while though. It did not help that the whole time, even though she was laughing, she was awkardly looking back at his friends so I could not keep eye contact. Just after a short while he went back to his friends. By the way, this exact similar situation happened 3! times troughout the night. Even though I told her "it's ok to enjoy dancing", "you don't have to be nervious" and "I'll teach you" he went back to his friends eventually everytime. I think at the very least I could have grabbed her number... no-brainer right?

Second girl: Diana, the girl who my "natural" friend was dancing with, asked to dance with me! Honestly, I didn't know how to take it. I know I looked like a "beta" when I asked my friend before dancing with her, he said it was ok but noticed a sightly condesceding vibe to it. So I just kept it cool and dancing like normal, I got some light kino in but eventually handed her back to him. I didn't want to "steal" her from him, I'm just not capable or desperate for a shitty move like that. She hit me two more times also though... one time when he was at the bathroom... shit test or what? Maybe I'm just overthinking and she just wanted to join my fun as I was dancing the whole time. Because I noticed them kissing later in the night...

Third girl: So the HB8 and HB6 friends of Diana eventually approached and "sandwiched" me for a short while. I think that this was the HB8 trying to set me up with HB6 whom really I had no interest whatsoever with... Because when I tried to convey my attention to HB8, she wanted to dance but "separately" (meaning: no kino), so I straight up told her "I will teach you some moves, come closer", and as the other cases she complied for a bit, but then went on to the other side of the table... just content at looking at me dancing.

As you can see in all cases I tried to convey my sexual intent right away... unfortunately the one I noticed most receptive to it was Diana, which I deliberately turned down.

After the night was over I asked my "natural" friend if he could give me any tips... he said I should wait for 1-2 tracks before grabbing the girls and of course if they don't want to come closer after that then drop it.

Seems like something in track with the DiCarlo's scalation ladder, so I'll try that tomorrow (we are going out again), instead of grabbing them by the hip right away.

Is there anything specific that has worked for you when "cold" approaching at the club as a good dancer?

PS. Just in case you were wondering. I simply can't doubt my friend is a "natural"... he has showed me his "catalog" of girls which basically ask him to go fuck, and he goes out all the time to get more/replacements.