No I didn't have a threesome. No I didn't even get laid. No I didn't even get tons of numbers. I just had the best night ever. After tonight I know I can talk to ANYONE.

I'm in college and I see sooooo many posts on here how "I've gone through 4 years of college and I haven't gotten laid once" or "I give up there's no hope". I have gotten laid and have had girlfriends and one night stands but I wasn't at all happy with my results. It had been months since I got laid last or even hooked up with a girl. Last night I had lost all hope. I had gone out the night before and couldn't talk to anyone. I had given up drinking and without the confident boost I could only talk to the few of the girls I knew. I tried to open new girls but to almost no real success. I woke up in the morning and couldn't even get out of bed. I was also surrounded by negative energy as one of my closest friends basically said how he's given up trying to get laid. I went downstairs to make food came back and laid in bed, went to take a shower came back and laid in bed. I was in bed till fucking 6 PM in the afternoon!

But there was another party tonight but I wasn't trying to go but my friends basically dragged me out. They were drunk and wanted me to come through. I decided if I'm walking this far it was DO OR DIE. I'm talking to every single fucking person here and making this night amazing. On the way there I was having a BALL joking with my friends and having a great time and I knew I was going to make this epic. AND I FUCKING DID. Legit had great interactions with EVERY GIRL IN THE PARTY. Gorgeous fucking girls, average girls, beat girls, girls with boyfriends, a girl dancing with a guy (who straight up left him and told me she wanted to hang with me and fuck me in the bathroom) and after each of them I would be so in-state that they would leave whatever they were doing to talk to me and get into the conversation! I left the party with 100 new friends! Oh and the one bad interaction I have where a girl acted super bitchy to me and almost walked away, a new kid I met there and talked to, told her how amazing I was and she came up and apologized to me!

Sorry for the rant I'm just excited about the night, and exhausted.

Just some small things that I thought were important:

I wasn't focused on getting laid at all, I just focused on getting to know every person there and expanding my social circle. I didn't even bring a condum or have one on deck, I think my lack of this made my neediness basically zero but also made me eject from every interaction early with little to no kino or escalation.

No drinks helped with this, as before it was almost like I was drinking TO talk to girls. So there was so much pressure to talk to them, unlike now where I talked to them because I wanted to. No pressure.

I realize I neg way too much. I don't do it on purpose, just my habit of teasing goes over the top to the point where I'm extremely mean. Sometimes I went way too over the top where girls said "I feel uncomfortable" and started leaving but still gave me their number... and eventually stayed.

There were some bodybuilder dudes, guys much taller than me, much better looking and with tons of friends with them. But I swear every time I looked in the mirror (they were on one of the walls) I thought I was the BEST looking one at the party by far. I was so in-state it was crazy.

One of the super roids bodybuilders even snatched a girl I was hitting it off from me, talked to her all night and she left WITHOUT HIM. Basically cockblocking me for the night, and not getting laid himself. I was a little butthurt, but I bounced back by talking to another girl as soon as she left and keeping the night going.

I stopped expecting anything from anyone. I used to expect my friends to introduce me to girls, or parties to bring drunk girls who want to fuck me, or alcohol to solve all my problems. I literally went into this with NO expectations, just trying to impress myself.

I think college game is different than cold approach, during a few sets the girls were very apprehensive toward me until one of their friends introduced me as a really cool kids and they opened up completely. I think social connections are vital. I would say I spent like 15% of my time talking to guys.

Final thing, this entire summer I've been watching a ton of RSDTyler, RSDJulien and RSDJeffy videos as well as blueprint. None of it too seriously but while playing video games or on the way to work. And also recently this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D6MxPx6DBaM I never consciously focused on any of their material or tried doing what they said tonight, but I have no doubt somehow it leaked in it helped.

TLDR: All it takes is one day to make a change. One night can give you hope. Thinking about going out tonight? GO OUT. If I decided to be a boner and stay in, I would be listening to drake and thinking about my ex all night. You control your outcome, you control your life. Just try something different, it will work I promise.