"You're not the man I once knew. / You used to be a good person."

2014-09-14T03:23:43+00:00

I think your female friends viewed you as the nice guy that wasn't a womanizer and now I'm guessing they're a little intimidated by you. I wouldn't let it worry you. They just see you slinging game and it irks them cause you're not that safe guy friend they can rely on anymore. You're that guy they know that is loose and wild with women. If they can't see you as the same friend then maybe they never saw you at all.

2014-09-14T05:07:48+00:00

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ThrowawayPUA · 2014-09-14T03:51:47+00:00

Who are these women? Girls you knew in high school? Back then, you spent years together and didn't really have much choice about what you did or who was available to do it with. Then you grew up, and you started making your own choices. You got to associate with the people you chose, and do the things you chose to do. But a lot of those people you knew, are still stuck in the past. They're not interested in moving forward like you are.

One of the reasons we do this stuff, is so we can create a better social circle, a better social environment, so we have better people around us, and can choose to spend our time doing better things, with better people. We do this to make ourselves happy. When you are happy, a lot of people like to drag you down. They're not happy, you should be miserable like them. Leave those people behind.

Andress1 · 2015-01-26T12:31:22+00:00

It's funny because they are the ones incentivizing that asshole behaviour.If being a nice guy was attractive to women men wouldn't try pickup and find out that transform into assholes gives good results.

DAT-Z · 2014-09-14T06:12:19+00:00

These bitches be pissed because they have one less emotional tampon that they can vent all of their frustrations to. You cut off the validation then women turn into rabid cats. That's just how it works.

2014-09-14T05:02:39+00:00

Once upon a time, your female friends thought of you as safe, because you were nice, effeminate and unattractive to them. Now they are bitter because they've lost their "guy friend", and probably remind them of the guys who have broken their hearts.

However, there is one thing to consider here. A lot of guys who transfer into more manly men often encounter one bump on the road. This bump is going from being a nice guy, to the exact opposite. So the transformation usually goes something like nice guy -> complete dickhead -> good person. Make sure that you haven't exchanged all of your old traits for the polar opposite. You can be a polite, kind and thoughtful guy and still get laid plenty.

Title	"You're not the man I once knew. / You used to be a good person."
Author	sedditburner
Upvotes	0
Comments	7
Date	September 14, 2014 3:07 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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