22M reddit says im a 7-8 on rateme. But I don't get any match on tinder

ambrosiris · 2014-09-21T09:04:35+00:00

Because most of Reddit is a hugbox. Alternatively: Cos Tinder a shit.

Nah real you're fine looking but tinder matches are reliant on good photos. Which are never representative of a 3D moving human being's appearance. You're giving them rape vibes in the first photo. The smile and distant staring eyes lel.

Fuck tinder, go talk to girls IRL.

2014-09-21T12:41:37+00:00

IMO tinder and any match system that depends on girls saying if they like you is bullshit. The same girl who said "no" to the match could be the one coming home with you after a night out.

chakazulu77 · 2014-09-21T16:39:10+00:00

Appearance-wise, your goals on tinder are three-fold: appear attractive, appear fun and interesting, and last but not at all least, appear unthreatening.

I'd say I'm slightly above average looking and have done very well on Tinder as far as matches and dates, here's my bio: http://imgur.com/a/V6JhY and what I've found works very well.

Choose your absolute best pics and if you don't have clearly lit high quality pictures take some new ones and upload them to a private album on facebook and you can access them on tinder from there.

Appear fun and interesting. Don't just use headshots, include pics of you doing something cool, I always get questions about the fish pic in my bio. Also good idea for one or two pics with friends.

Lastly, appear non-threatening. You look like an MMA fighter mean mugging in the first pic and while some girls might like that overall what they want is a guy they'll feel safe meeting up with eventually. If you scare her or look threatening she won't swipe right and if she does it will be very difficult to meet up.

Hegemott · 2014-09-21T11:41:09+00:00

Official research says people on Tinder get more attractive if they have pics where they're doing their hobbies.

Also, as the other dudes said, yeah that first pic is rape vibes all the way. You're probably (hopefully) not a rapist, so you might wanna switch that out to some hobby pic, like when you're standing next to your bicycle, woodworking, or w/e you like to do.

Also, as the other dude said, Tinder is shit, get out of the house and meet people.

2014-09-21T13:59:29+00:00

Looks like there is a girl in your arm in the picture. You shouldn't cut her out, shows that you have friends. If they're female, even better. Are you tall? Write your height in your profile. It's ridiculous how well that works, especially on tall chicks.

m40ofmj · 2014-09-21T16:04:34+00:00

cut your hair, learn how to say something actually funny or interesting, buy a nicer shirt brotato

puaCurveBall · 2014-09-22T23:31:00+00:00

This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl

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Title	22M reddit says im a 7-8 on rateme. But I don't get any match on tinder
Author	2throwaway1
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Comments	7
Date	September 21, 2014 8:51 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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