I took a girl out to a bar tonite and i just stood there 1/2 dancing while she was dancing with other guys. Im in college and i just dont feel aggressive in any sense. Im not an alpha male. I wish i could have just grabbed her and kissed her but then i wouldnt know what to honestly do. I need to learn what it is to feel motivated to claim my stake and to be an alpha male. I dont know now to build up the motivation to kiss a girl even if were alone