How to get out and be more social with girls

recyclablebantha · 2014-10-14T06:58:11+00:00

I go to class but I dont really talk to anyone ......caise school is priority #1 for me.

Then you are making a choice here. And it's a choice that is shooting you in the foot. I'd also question whether you prioritizing school is really the reason here. You can get good grades and still talk to people. For example, I created plenty of study groups that helped raise the grades of all involved. Those study groups helped academic success AND facilitated social interaction.

So this idea that you aren't talking to people because you think school is important....... it's simply not true.

Talking to people, is how you get social with them. Talking to people, will lead to talking to girls. And talking to people in class is like the low hanging fruit here.

I live with my best friend from high school and we hang out a lot but I miss having that bond that you get from a relationship.

To be frank, this is codependence speaking. A fully self-actualized person, doesn't feel a lack when they're not in a relationship. They may like to hang out with people and occasionally feel lonely, but they don't need to have "that bond."

Im fairly attractive and I am usually outgoing but recently ive fell into sort of a depression. Not a "im going to kill myself" type of way but more of a "id rather sleep and play league of legends than go out"

I dont have time for any clubs or groups at the school.

Hmmmm. I'm starting to think that your choice of focusing on your school work and limiting your social interactions to your best friend, is really hurting your emotional health. An easy fix you can start implementing today is to start talking to people in your classes.

It's not fair to yourself to walk around thinking that you don't have time, when in fact, the issue is that your choices have led to you not having time.

You have to make time for yourself. This is your well-being we're talking about here. If you have time to sit around and play League of Legends, that is a choice you are making that cuts you off from the world.

And now you're sitting here in a depression.

So how do I get motivated to go out and meet the possible next girlfriend?

Make different choices with your time. Start prioritizing YOURSELF and your happiness. It does no freaking good to focus so much on academic success while sacrificing this much of yourself. What good is it to get straight As if you end up destroying your emotional health in the process?

Please take care, OP.

2014-10-14T07:00:32+00:00

Start small. Talk to people IN class. Get their numbers "for assignments" and bullshit with them now and again.

Your problem is you say you don't have any friends (no offense) so girls aren't your top priority, building a social circle is. After you have a few friends you can chill with (make friends with some girls for sure) you'll have access to lots of people.

I purposefully make friends with hot girls, I friendzone them immediately. Why the fuck would I do that? Because when she introduces me to her friends it starts with "OMG GUYS this is Fvck__it, he's sooooo funny!"

That's like +10 awesome right off the bat, you don't get a better introduction that a glowing review.

Friend zone the hottest chick in class. Be friendly and platonic, tell her she's like your best friend form high school, etc etc. Make it clear she's a friend.

Title	How to get out and be more social with girls
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Date	October 14, 2014 6:01 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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