So I've been hooking up with this bohemian chick that I F-closed on our first date. This thing's been going on about a month or so

She and I are a lot alike in that we are both party animals, always out doing something, have a lot of friends but run in different circles in our city.

I don't see us seriously dating but I think she's fun and I'd like to play this thing out and keep it casual.

The thing that's driving me nuts is that by this point I figured she'd be falling in love with me. There are times when I can tell I'm winning her over but then bam she disappears for a few days.

Maybe it's just my competitive side, but she keeps me guessing. I feel like it's a game of tug of war and she's doing all the same things I'm doing and she's getting in my head.

So how do you deal with girls that know how to play the game too?