I've heard many claims of misogyny thrown around against the seduction community. I will dispel this. The purpose of seduction is communication. In our everyday lives there are good ways to communicate and bad ways to communicate. Some forms of communication are more effective than others in different contexts. We seek to find the best way to communicate with women and connect with them in a sexual way.

The purpose of seduction is not to manipulate women. It isn't to fool women into fucking men. On the contrary. It is a way of presenting our best self to women and being able to communicate intent in a way that makes her respond positively. I feel that if women can spend hours getting ready to go out to clubs to present their best self, men should be able to do the same. There is nothing wrong with a man wishing to develop better communication skills so he can show a woman who he truly is. This is the core of seduction: men trying to communicate better in a sexual context with women.

However, what is interesting is that in order to do this, we must act in ways that are counter-intuitive and which might grate against social conventions. No one wants to look at how hot dogs are made when you'll be eating them. Just as when women look at the communication strategies we use and call them misogynist. You might eat hot dogs and enjoy their taste, but watching how they make them might make you lose your appetite. Just like if you reveal these tactics to women, they will lose their appetite for you, despite having responded positively to them.

This is something I will integrate into my internal narrative, to improve my inner game. My goal is to communicate better with women. My goal is to screen for women that meet my criteria. To screen for women that demonstrate to me the traits I'm looking for. There are literally billions of women in the world right now. Loads of them probably meet the criteria I'm looking for. This is what is meant by abundance mentality. This makes me think back to an old music video by 2 Live Crew for the song Me So Horny. In it, Luke talks about grabbing his black book of freaks to call. It turns out his black book is the white pages.

Of course, I'm not suggesting you take your local white pages and start calling random women. However, there is something there that we can learn from. This is what is meant by abundance mentality. Every single woman that you are attracted to may potentially reciprocate those feelings. So even if only 0.0001% of women would find you extremely attractive, that means there are nearly a million women out there in the world that could potentially want you just as much and you might also find them attractive as well. Who knows--she might turn out to be more than just a nice fuck. Or, maybe I'm still just a hopeless romantic, despite having integrated game into my communication strategy.

There's billions of women out there. Go seduce them. Go fuck them. Go have fun.