How's it going everyone? I'm H0tC0ff33. Long time lurker of Seddit. I would like to share with ya'll the story of my evening, my personal victories, my airheaded mistakes and the lessons I took from it all. I do this in the hopes of showing someone that, even though it can seem daunting, anyone can seduce given the right attitude, solid mindset and a healthy dose of confidence.

Small backstory. I was pretty overweight until about 2 years ago so my self-confidence has never really been very high. I shed the pounds and started to work on my look as well as my game. I have made good strides over time and there is always room for perfecting. Tonight, I went out and pretty much didn't give a fuck. I talked, joked around and flirted without shame and it worked pretty damn well.

It starts with my roommate going downtown to meet up with a few friends of his for someones birthday. I'm not much for downtown outings or birthday shenanigans anymore because of the shit show that typically ensues but I felt like getting out of the house and letting Netflix have the night off. I always try to look as good as possible when I go out but tonight it was just too cold to care so I threw on a simple hoodie and we were off.

So we arrived a little early and have a beer while waiting for the rest to show up. As we meet up with the rest of the party goers, it seems that my roommate and I are the only two men among five quite attractive women, which I can't say upset me. I have been trying to work on my opening and flirting game (and honestly watching Californication has been pretty insightful. Seriously, try it if you haven't. David Duchovny is smooth as silk in that show.) So I just start to flirt with all the women in company just because why the hell not. Few compliments here, few innuendos there. I can plainly see I am not receiving any serious interest but I am keeping it light, fun and making them laugh so it's a solid start.

The night progresses, we start bar hopping and as we walk, I catch the beautiful eyes of some cute girl walking behind me. Instantly, I slow down and begin to walk beside her. I ask her how her night is going and compliment her attire. Start a little small talk and flirting. I begin to see my friends are getting pretty far without me, so I tell her that I need to catch up to them and if she felt like joining us then she was welcome to. I understand that I should have just capitalized and either have asked her to come along or for her number, but I was in a hurry and the night was still young.

At the point of making into the bar, a little drama happens between a couple of the girls I was with. No worries, I just grab my roommate and we make our way to get a drink. Right before we get our drink, an absolute stunner walks up next to me. We ordered drinks at the same time and I then started to tease her about her nasty jager shot. We joke around and she asks what shot I would prefer over hers and she buys mine. We talk some more until she said she had to get back to her friends party. Again, did not ask for her number. Amateur hour, I know.

Night goes on and its starting to get late. Last bar we go to is some little western bar with a mechanical bull in the center. I strike up another conversation to a girl next to me while ordering. Asked her if she was with someone here because she was just too beautiful to be at a bar by herself. I guess it doesn't matter too much how cheesy the line is, as long as you're confident when you say it because she ate it up. We joke around, still keeping it light, when I dare her to ride the bull. She seems hesitant at first but I tease her about it and she does it. Always nice to get a cute girl to giggle around and see her stock. Unfortunately, I had to cut out soon after to go help a friend in need but I didn't fuck up a third time and I got her number.

I know I didn't f-close or even k-close tonight so some people may find all this meaningless. But this subreddit is all about learning the art of seduction. Tonight I didn't worry about a thing, made a few women smile and above all else had a good time. And what I learned tonight will help get the close the next time.

So to simply summarize into points:

TL:DR

1) Go out to have fun and don't put too much pressure on yourself.

2) Dressing up is nice but the image and air you project is key

3) As soon as you catch her eyes, you move. Do not hesitate. While you're sitting there, trying to think of the perfect thing to say, all she really wants is for you to come over and say anything.

4) Keep the conversation light, fun and witty. Joke around and tease her. The longer she smiles and laughs, the more attractive you become.

5) Just don't care and never let them see you sweat. Understand the worst women can do is say no. But the worst you can do is rob yourself of a good opportunity. Knowing feels so much better than wondering and regretting.

Thank ya'll for reading. I'm sure everything I have said here has been said before but all that means is that it's true. Always remember that you are the shit and life is too boring not to try.

Happy Hunting.