Openers & False Time Constraints

RemySheppard · 2015-01-09T00:02:03+00:00

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The opener is arguably one of the most important parts of a pick-up. If you don’t open your mouth and talk to a chick there is absolutely no chance of sleeping with her. You have to say something to get the conversation started.

This is like pushing a truck up hill by yourself. She’s going to be sitting in the passenger seat, it’s going to be a hummer without gas, and you’ve got to push that bad boy up a vertical face to get it to the gas station.

That is honestly what its like trying to start a conversation from nothing with a woman.

We’ve all felt it, we’ve all experienced it, and we all deal with it in our own way. I prefer to open women with a false time constraint whenever I can. It will always help get the conversation moving because it gives her the impression that you wont be around long if you prove to be uninteresting – which makes her more likely to engage you – and it gives her a feeling of fear and dread that you’re leaving once you pass the conversational hook point.

What is a false time constraint?

A false time constraint is when you tell a woman that you don’t have long to talk or hang around because you have a busy life and she only gets to experience this short piece of it – in so many words. A great example of a false time constraint are those TV commercials that ask you to call in the next ten minutes and then put up a counter on the screen, counting down ten minutes.

If you call in the next 15 minutes, 20 minutes, or even 5 hours later you will still get the same deal. The counter is just for show – it’s a false time constraint that is being used to get you to buy right now instead of putting it off.

Let me give you a real life story: I was at this cool little pirate bar near my house. It has a great atmosphere, live music and great drinks. This cute little thing sits next to me at the bar with a guy in tow. After a few minutes of her rambling to the bar tender, I pick up on something they were talking about and lightly tease her – this gets a conversation rolling and I find that the guy is her brother (Game on!).

After a few minutes of conversation I excuse myself to go to the bathroom. On my way I notice two absolutely gorgeous girls sitting at a table near the women’s room. I make a note and go about my business.

On my way back from the bathroom I walk just passed their table and stop, turn around and put my hand on the table and say, “The line is so long to get in there you just post up at a table?” And smile.

They look at each other, laugh, and the one of them starts to explain their seating choice (qualifying). I turn and take a step as she starts to talk and then turn back (body rocking). I keep my toes pointed to where I’m going (away from them) and rock back and forth as she talks.

“No, we just like it here.”

I step back in front of their table, lightly kino one girl on the arm and say, “You’ve got to hear this story – real quick though because my friends are waiting for me – …” And then I launch into a scripted story.

Every time they talk, I move away like I’m about to leave. I only mention the one time that my friends are waiting for me, but I do it in a natural way. This is how you couple an opener with a false time constraint – make it natural.

Vince Kelvin opens straight with a false time constraint, “Real quick because I don’t have much time…” – This is a bullshit way to do it because you come off as a used car salesman, and not a person trying to have an interaction.

I, on the other hand, slid my false time constraint into the conversation, mixed it with some solid body rocking, and was able to get pretty far in the set. I had a better thing going with cute bar girl so I eventually grabbed digits from both chicks and then headed back over to my seat.

Added bonus: Cute bar girl saw me flirting and grabbing numbers from bathroom hotties – pre-selection.

All in all, old school PUA techniques like body rocking and false time constraints have a lot of value when used properly and can get you far – you just have to use them right. Take this story, dissect it, learn from it and figure out how you can apply some false time constraints to your next set!

Title	Openers & False Time Constraints
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Date	January 9, 2015 12:01 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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