I am so stressed out right now, it feels like I am not in control of my life and people keep getting in my way. I am especially stressed since my dad and younger brother are going to be moving in the same city as me, and I have this girl that I hanged out with, but feel like I can't get her anymore. I recently turned 20, and haven't ever been in a relationship, but I feel like just as if I am getting closer and improving, more obstacles keep popping up.

My close friends are telling me to focus on my studies, and to not worry about relationships. I also have another friend, who told me that I am not ready for a relationship yet (she is also 20, and has a great relationship with her bf), but I know that I have made some great progress, and I really don't want to stop.

TL;DR: I just can't take it anymore, I am just tired of being chained by others. I just don't want to think about all the logistics that I have to do, and all the mind games to get the girl I like or to pursue a relationship. It doesn't help that I am Muslim either :/