Where's the line between demonstrating high value and being a conceited asshole?

g_gggg · 2015-01-30T03:31:42+00:00

My problem is that I can't distinguish between demonstrating high value and coming across as someone who's trying to prove themselves (validation and approval seeking).

I think this end up being polar opposites a lot. Rich people don't talk about how rich they are. Famous athletes and actors won't sit around trying to prove to you that they're cool.

High value people act like high value people. Low value people act arrogant in an attempt to prove they are high value. There's nothing high value about validation seeking behavior.

Imagine how Tom Brady or Brad Pitt act at a party. They're probably FAR from arrogant even though they have the most reason to be. They're probably humble and chill but extremely confident in themselves. They'd be the first guys to walk up to a beautiful girl without hesitation and the last guys to try and prove to her that she should like him. Act like that.

Llleblanc1986 · 2015-01-29T23:21:32+00:00

There's no need to demonstrate anything, just by trying to do that, your already demonstrating "lower value".

denon_multizone · 2015-01-30T00:22:04+00:00

One is approval seeking, the other is pride.

Being proud of the things youve done in your life and stuff you've accomplished is great. Its when you start saying those things in the hope that she will approve, like o thats cool, that you are crossing the line.

If you saw a rediculous thing at the gym, tell the story. If you boast about how you can bench 300 so she starts gushing for you, well..

puaCurveBall · 2015-01-29T22:50:05+00:00

This isn't an answerable question. Its going to be different for every person, every girl and every situation.

Go find your own line, IN THE FIELD. Do a dozen approaches, see the reactions, and dial it up until you cross the line, and then back off a little.

RPSigmaStigma · 2015-01-30T02:54:02+00:00

There is no line. I'm the best. Respect the cock.

Title	Where's the line between demonstrating high value and being a conceited asshole?
Author	Weegoh
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Comments	5
Date	January 29, 2015 10:41 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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