Hi everyone. Long story short I've recently, finally, cut ties with my partner (oneitus) of two years after our toxic relationship became too much and she essentially told me to stop contacting her otherwise she'd contact the police, she also contacted my sister who she had never spoken to, to let her know she was serious. This was three weeks ago, I hadn't spoken to her properly for nearly two months at that point unless it was her sending me abuse. I have been heartbroken about her for probably half of a year as we have been so on and off, it was always coming, I sort of done my healing for the most part already whilst we were on and off (always because of her dumping me then coming back etc.) she told me she didn't love me and that she hates me now, to never contact her again. Then she contacted my sister. That was the straw that broke the camels back for me and since that and the threat she made, I haven't, I've been doing my best to move on although it sometimes does hit me and really hurt that someone I lived with and truly loved is now never to be a part of my life, the shittiest part is imagining another dude in my place, but my lesson learned from this is that I will never trust a women again in a romantic sense. She said many times that although our relationship was falling to pieces, she can't just stop loving me and that even if we're not together she needs me in her life. Bullshit. I gave her everything I had, moved out of my home to be with her, put her first every day, just to get fucked over in the end. My friends have really helped me focus on new things and myself.

I've fucked two girls already, nowhere near as as hot as her - if she was a high 7 or so, they were 4's, I had also fucked two in the past 6 months when we were on and off. It never really helped the way I felt. Honestly, I think dating and easing into another relationship in a really natural way is what I think will really help, just realising there's more women out there I enjoy being with and would be happy with in a relationship. Anyway, I met someone I really fucking like, and I don't know how to play this and it's a bit weird so hopefully you guys can assist.

After a Friday night out, I was catching the train home from the middle of the city in the early hours of Saturday (about 6am). I saw this stunning girl with black curly hair, tanned skinned, tight body and a really nice outfit. I can confidently say she is an 8 or 9, she was fucking gorgeous. She looked Spanish, who I tend to have a preference for (my ex was half) and I was drunk so I thought fuck it I'll talk to her. We got chatting, she said she was French and her accent was suuuper sexy. SHE asked for MY number, within about 30 seconds of speaking. I got her Instagram too. I asked what she was doing later that day, she said going out with me. I sort of played it like "sureee, we'll see how you feel in the morning" she kept insisting we would. We got on the train together, she was only on for three stops, so when she got off we messaged back and forth for about 20 minutes before she had got home and fallen asleep. The next day she replied to my last message, and ever since she has barely shown an interest. She took 7 hours to reply again after that. I asked what she was doing that night, she said staying home with her friend. I said have a nice time, then asked her to let me know if she still wanted to meet up some time. This morning she replied saying "yes next week for sure" so I just said "cool you can let me know". I'm thinking maybe A. The language barrier might be why she doesn't talk at all to me. B. She doesn't use whatsapp much or C. She is just not that bothered about me. I get that we had both been drinking, but she was very forward and must have been interested to get my number and insist we were meeting up. I'm just wondering how I play this now? I'm thinking to maybe send her a message tomorrow asking her how her job went as she started a new one. But I don't know. I'd love to meet this girl. Struggling to read this situation though. Please help guys!