Can someone help me understand Kino

2015-03-22T17:25:51+00:00

I just wanna mention: Kino doesn't build attraction, it's just something that's in interactions of two people who are attracted to each other. I think that's a big misconception here, and with all PUA ideas historically. When guys were first formulating ideas for pickup and seduction, they looked at men who were successful and tried to emulate them. They saw that the successful man would touch the girl a lot. But to say this is a mechanism that gets her to like you would be an error. The error being confusing correlation and causation. Playful touching is correlated with a sense of attraction, it is not a cause of it.

johnnymaddick · 2015-03-22T17:06:21+00:00

If you feel weird or creepy, she would feel the same.
Be playful, like a child, have fun.
Be creative - use your other body parts to touch her (I will leave this to your imagination)
Sit on one side of the table.
Have plausible deniability when touching (Give me your your hand, I will show you something cool).

Johnny Maddick, The human centipede, [DatingWithAccent.com] (http://DatingWithAccent.com)

Big_TX · 2015-03-22T16:46:58+00:00

Your soposed to sit next to or adjacent to each other., not actoss from each other. that way you can do some keno easer. Dinner dates arnt usualy recomended because you can't do that much keno.

2015-03-22T17:39:04+00:00

You should think less about when and how to touch her. Think about conversation. You can't tell yourself you always have to be talking, and that it has to be clever and smooth. There's going to be moments of some silence, and you might not have something to say. This isn't optimal, but it's fine, your not losing ground in the moment. Sometimes you just ask a question, or change the subject. To force something pre planned ( a line or routine) into that moment would be awkward and weird/creepy.

Physicality is the same way. There will be moments devoid of touch. This isn't optimal, but you can't have a mindset where you HAVE to fill that void. To do a ore planned move in that moment would, yes your correct, be weird/creepy.

Kino is something you want to do, not that you have to do. It's something that feels right in the moment, not something you logically decide to do.

Title	Can someone help me understand Kino
Author	isaythingstopeople
Upvotes	8
Comments	4
Date	March 22, 2015 4:21 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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