Long time since I've been here but I am back and in need of advice. In a social situation I kill it. I speak loudly and confident and joke around and try to help everybody have a good time. But outside of social situations, when I am just walking around, I think I am putting off an opposing demeanor. I know that I am very logical and I need to get better at turning off that logical mind at a moments notice because I think that when I walk around people see me as unapproachable. I already have the being black thing which can work against me in a crowd of mixed races. (Because black people have a colorful ways of expression, people often don't know who they could be dealing with or if they are "fucking with the wrong nigga") Any way to look more approachable so people can get in on all this awesome that is me? It's getting warm out and people are now starting to come out of their little caves and there are a LOT of good looking girls on my campus.