Comfort zone and fear of success.

Ddot220 · 2015-04-13T20:42:30+00:00

You were probably just scared to go even farther out of your comfort zone, and you seem like a somewhat introverted person. You probably wanted to dance with the girl, but deep down, you were scared to step even farther out of your comfort zone and you were scared to put some of your vulnerability and trust into a complete stranger.

I'm not a pro but next time, I would recommend dancing with her for a little/introducing yourself, then moving away from the dance floor to get to know her. If you talk to her for awhile and it goes well and you build up rapport, then you can bring her back to the dance floor/escalate. It is tough for guys to go out of their comfort zone and be vulnerable around others. You made good progress already, next time take it a step farther. I know I struggle with similar issues as well.

2015-04-14T05:22:23+00:00

I feel the same way about suicide.

Title	Comfort zone and fear of success.
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Date	April 13, 2015 8:01 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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