I've noticed a sort of trend among my friend's girlfriends in that they all seem to end up hitting on me. It's really weird when I'm out with my friends and I can see one of them checking their phone every few minutes for a text from his girl while I have two messages from them that I haven't responded to.

One went so far as to outwardly solicit sex with me. I'm new to TRP, so I really had no clue what was going on and I felt shitty like I was destroying my friend's relationships somehow. This is still something that happens, so I just don't talk to my friend's girlfriends at all any more because it seems like even if I do a little that they're all over me. Meanwhile I'm having a bit of a dry-spell for success with actually available women. So basically, is this just red pill or am at fault? and; why can't I garner the attention of any woman who aren't already dating my friends?