Ok, so here goes. There's this girl that I've got a bit of a crush on. We have a lot of the same friends, so we've hung out with those people a few times. Even though we've spoken a few times, she's pretty shy when it comes to anything physical, and usually goes all "deer in the headlights" when something like that comes up. Anyways, I know for a fact that I'm going to see her at a party that I'm going to tonight, and she invited me to her place yesterday to finish a movie that we started with friends about a week ago. Now, I understand that when a girl invites you over to watch a movie, she probably wants to do more than watch the movie. The only thing is, this girl is really, really shy, and I don't think she realizes what she's setting up. Anyways, I am trying to get a relationship going with this girl, or at least maybe get a k close or a date out of tonight. What types of things should I do while I'm at the party or at her place?