Can oneitis last for over a year with a girl you've never dated, or could it be something else?

2015-05-01T13:39:42+00:00

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MEA1978 · 2015-05-01T13:47:40+00:00

Tell her how you feel. She'll either tell you that she does or doesn't feel the same for you. If she doesn't feel the same, then you'll be disillusioned. It'll hurt at first, but then you'll be free of your feelings--I can almost guarantee. If you don't tell her how you feel, you'll continue feeling this way; you'll continue suffering. It's not a good look to have strong emotions for someone who's in a relationship. That person has a world they share with another person that you're unaware of and it shouldn't surprise you when your feelings are unreciprocated. "Oneitis" is the illusion of a relationship. It's only safe to have feelings for a girl who's overtly in a bad relationship and seems to be in transition. ANYWAY, tell her how you feel. It's your only way out of this one-sided behavior you've been entertaining.

Title	Can oneitis last for over a year with a girl you've never dated, or could it be something else?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	3
Comments	7
Date	May 1, 2015 1:11 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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