What to do after getting a girl to like you?

Big_TX · 2015-05-23T22:13:22+00:00

You should read/watch a pick up book/program. RSD has one called foundations. There is a book called magic bullets that I hear recommended a lot. And models by mark Manson. models has some really good stuff, but it also shits on the community to distance himself from the community as a marketing tatcic (he admired to it in an ama) for that I'm reluctant to recommend it because I feel like it could really stifle some people's success if their sticking points sent addressed in the book.

If you read it, assume anything negative he says about the community is not true until you find out for your self. (Obvsiously some of the things he says is true)

There is a lot of advice on structuring dates:

Try to go to three locations

Touch her

Try something exciting

Don't do a movie.

Don't do a dinner date

I really would not worry about that stuff too much. In the past that has stressed me out a lot.

Just go to the park.

Or like get coffee then maybe go to the park.

Of if you know how to dance take her dancing.

Or grab something light to eat, like not a fancy restraurant, then go do something els.

Don't over think it. Just do something. If the energy is not good at the beginning don't worry, just make jokes and maybe leads her somewhere. Or push Pull or something. Then the energy will get get better.

Take the lead and ask her to do something tomorrow

Everyone is different so you have to Taylor other people's advice to you and don't take anything as gospel.

Good luck! Does everything make since?

Edit: obviously keno escalate

recyclablebantha · 2015-05-25T05:31:14+00:00

I've been talking to this girl ever since I gave her my number (we work together and go to the same school so I've known her) as she seemed interested.

Small thing: don't just give girls your number. It's not going to be as strong a move as just going for a number exchange.

Would just going out to getting something to eat or some coffee suffice?

In a pinch, sure. The important thing is to be in a place that allows for privacy, has a warm and/or inviting atmosphere, and then you use the opportunity to get into what makes her tick as a person. That's a good way to discover if there's a mutual connection.

All my friends tell me to just bang her in my car or at my house but that's not me to do that right off the bat and plus I don't want to rush anything because I like her as a person and don't just want a fuck buddy. Obviously I want to have sex soon though.

Yeah, don't listen to any advice that doesn't resonate with you. Some guys will just tell you to do things in a way that doesn't match you or the situation, just because they want to see something happen.

After I hopefully get her out to lunch or something what should I do next?

We aren't the ones to ask. It's about paying attention to the girl during lunch. She'll give you information if you pay attention during conversation.

Part of the reason why I am attracted to her is because she is very easy to talk to and we find ourselves enjoying talking to each other a lot.

This happens a lot. I'm sure she appreciates things about you that are opposite of herself.

richterisms · 2015-05-24T06:12:35+00:00

Honestly just do whatever feels right man. You can only decide the best course of action for yourself, so why ask us? You are being self - disrespectful by asking us as if you have no idea how to do so yourself. Man all the ideas are inside you just gotta believe that you have them.

Best advice I've ever gotten. "Don't think. Feel"

Title	What to do after getting a girl to like you?
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Date	May 23, 2015 8:51 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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