Fear of Women, not of rejection

ScottRikkard · 2015-05-31T17:50:27+00:00

Ignore society for a moment, completely. Think about what you like.

Do you like this NSFW?

And... do you like femininity, just being around it. General softness, real emotions, a sort of grace, a bit submissive. I mean these are very much stereotypical elements of what is feminine...but do you enjoy them?

If you can say yes to both of these, and I assume you do... then you are "for women".

slcjosh · 2015-05-31T17:39:46+00:00

You're rationalizing. You aren't a "psychopath" or a rebel. Those characteristics are attractive to women. You are a loner. You need to work on yourself until you are confident enough and have enough self esteem to meet women.

ScottRikkard · 2015-05-31T19:52:00+00:00

It depends on your relationships with your mother/sister growing up. I deduct you grew up in a woman dominating family where you never were allowed to fully exercise your manly power, and your father being a submissive one didn't offer a model into which you wanted to develop so you think all women are ''judging mothers'' with impossible standards. They are not, but they tend to become that, if not in the presence of a healthy fully developed male psyche.

Source: Too familiar with your problem. Also a lone wolf. But getting over it, and studying many books helped me recognize my internal processes that needed calibration.

As they say, you get over your fear by doing what you're afraid of. You can start small. Very small - just saying hi in shops, then eventually day approaching. It's gonna be a journey man. But, you can make it in a year or two. Don't hurry, but start now.

Pm me if you need any clarification or just a convo, I know how it is, but the alternative (to stay the same) is even worse, though it seems more in your comfort zone.

Title	Fear of Women, not of rejection
Author	GoldieBerg
Upvotes	2
Comments	7
Date	May 31, 2015 4:47 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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