Can someone try explain this to me

YamFor · 2015-06-22T17:44:20+00:00

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third-i · 2015-06-22T19:08:07+00:00

Damn gypsies and their tricks. I take all of those stares as some obvious degree of an IOI. I would have moved away and then called her over. If she reciprocates, since its a club its probably loud, you have ample opportunities to get real close and spit some game. She shouldn't be staring if she has a bf so clearly shes feeling adventurous, challenge accepted!

recyclablebantha · 2015-06-23T07:36:24+00:00

So I'm dancing and this hot chick turns around and gives me a deep stare and starts dancing in front of me for like 2 minutes and starts shaking her hips and turns back every like 20 seconds to stare at me some more.

You learn to identify this kind of attention whore. Some girls do this kind of thing but actually want you to come get some. The kind of experience you've just had, is part of the learning process that will allow you to tell the difference between the two kinds of girls.

My female friend beside me raises her eyebrows as if to say "she wants you"

Girls like these are the reason that people say things like, "Don't ask a fish how to catch fish." But honestly, there are clueless people like this of both genders. Don't bother with advice from other people when you're out "in the field." You have to trust yourself. You shouldn't be taking action because some friend thinks you should. Their own bias will cloud their judgement and they'll miss things that you know because you'll be the one dealing directly with the girl in question.

so I get closer and grab the girls hips then she takes my hands off and says she has a boyfriend.

I don't get it, she gave all these signs to turn me down?

Right. Attention whore. She seeks validation from guys to feel attractive and prop up her self-esteem. She's not worth your time. AT ALL.

Think I waited too long to grab her?

No. She's lame. No question.

Title	Can someone try explain this to me
Author	YamFor
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	June 22, 2015 5:15 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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