So here is the issue.

I am getting cancelled on/rescheduled/blown off last day at a very high rate - I just counted and of last 19 girls I've arranged dates with, 17 have agreed and then bailed in one fashion or another, often last day.

Initially this pissed me off and I would tell them off. Except this just led to conflict, and never anywhere.

Then I ignored, they went away.

Start letting them save face "Well sorry to hear you're not feeling well"...All but one of these girls have at least feigned wanting to reschedule, but I just don't feel like it - the last minute reschedules communicates they think I'm low value, I do not agree to being in arrangements where I'm considered low value.

Most of these are women I met in person, a few on OKC.

What are the internet's thoughts about this?

Generally I am perplexed - I'm tall, good looking, well educated, have a job that pays well. I do not generally game them - just initiate and be myself, and in the past its always worked. Issue is that its led to a 7 month dry spell...and I'm beginning to doubt myself.