Maybe I am needing a new sub. I am looking for new requests.

recyclablebantha · 2015-07-30T05:42:23+00:00

I started looking at this sub after a 6 year relationship to find new women.

Getting back into the dating pool is all good and well.....

After about 3 years after her I cannot find an equivalent partner, things have been great getting to a meet girls but I am still stuck on the same woman.

However, you haven't really gotten back into the pool. Not fully. If you're trying to find another girl who's like her, then you're not letting go of her. Three years could have been enough time for you to recover from the break-up, but you have to want to recover. You don't fully want to let go of her. You seem to have this idea that she's the pinnacle of girls.

But she isn't. If nothing else, there's one vital thing missing: she isn't fully compatible with you. She's not fully connected with you. And if you really sit and think about it, there are other things missing too, but you are focusing on all the good things. Which keeps you alone and frozen in the mourning phase.

Do you like that? Is it more important for you to hold onto some image of this girl as some paragon of womanhood, or to move on and find yourself again?

Looking for a sub that about the issue.

It's kind of this one, in the sense that we cover self-improvement and many of us here have gone through or are going through, break-ups.

Title	Maybe I am needing a new sub. I am looking for new requests.
Author	chocolatemilk67
Upvotes	1
Comments	1
Date	July 30, 2015 5:02 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/3f4iak/maybe_i_am_needing_a_new_sub_i_am_looking_for_new/
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