Hey guys, just wanted to share this interesting story that happened tonight.
Anyway I had a busy day and talked a LOT. My voice was getting pretty hoarse, and then this evening I met some friends at the local fair, where due to the inherent screaming of fair rides, I could barely talk by the end. I had been chatting with a HB8, a mutual friend I had never met before, but my throat was hurting a lot so I told her I was going to limit my talking so I would be able to speak the next day.
Although mostly silent, we still were able to understand each other, and when we went on the ferris wheel I had an idea. Kino had been great for a while and my arm was around her, so to warm this idea up, I tapped her on the shoulder with my free arm as we passed the bottom of the wheel. It smelled pretty bad there, so when she looked over I pointed at the ground and made the universal "stinky" sign, waving my hand in front of my face. She cracked up. Then when we stopped at the top of the wheel, I tapped her again. She turned her head to look at me. We were less than half a foot apart, face to face, her in my arm. I pointed at me, then her, then my lips, then at her lips.
I barely gave her time to nod before going in for the kiss.
It escalated a bit with grabbing boobs and butt and rubbing through her jeans; she was pretty wet. She was on my lap at one point, and my hands were just everywhere. Anyway, my point is that this goes to show that if the girl is attracted, how you initiate the kiss DOESN'T MATTER. I must reiterate that kino beforehand was going very very well, so even though we had barely said a word to each other in the 15 minutes leading up, (we weren't ignoring each other either though) a k-close was absolutely possible. It's all about building attraction and kino!
tl;dr Kino is important and once attraction is built, you're golden as long as you don't ruin the attraction
EDIT: oh and we're both teens so the whole ferris wheel making out thing isn't weird. It was like 10:30PM and dark.
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