A small dance bar with good music and vibes. Dollar beer Tuesdays and Thursdays, this was a Tuesday. Im going to try as hard as i can to go into detail so i can really pinpoint when i got shut down. 1st time actually approaching so i thought id start a field report

Before arriving im not really quite in the party mood just a lot of prep talking with my two wingman. Grounding exercises. We get up to the door and as they let us in i walk in with a smile and feeling quite confident. My friends come close behind and as we make our way through the bar my friends buy some beer. I on the other hand dont drink, but i bought one anyway so i can just hold onto.

Seeing a lot of potential set to approach but havent decided. I wanted to get a good idea of what types of girls were there so i can approach.

Walking through the bar to the dance floor which had noone dancing yet. We head more towards the back and i see this 4 set. Keep in mind that this is my first time cold approaching. By this time ive lost my friend so it was just me and the other one. I enter the set of HB 7's and one HB8, then i ask why no one in their party hasnt dance yet becaused it look like they realyl wanted to dance. And they were dancing but at table. So i stick out my hand and go ask one Hb7 to follow me to the floor. She tells her friend something and then they decide they need to go to the bathroom. The other Hb7's were there once they left so i introduced and then they said THEY need to go to the restroom. I see the other set on the dance floor and start dancing into their set. They laugh and just start dancing a long. What i feel i messed up on was that i didnt talk enough i was just there dancing and didnt think of much to say. For me, i really wanted to just start escalating from there and ignore all the dancing bullshit. But they allowed me into their group. I got bored and i didnt really think of wahat to say so i actually left to the bar to look for my friend, me and my friend after looking for the other stop at the bar, i see this s2 set of Hb5 as a good warm up i ask one of them who was dancing in front me at the bar to come with me. She made some excuses about her friend and stuff, but over she decided to come with me. I held her hand on the dance floor. Started dancing and close touching. Flirted a little made her laugh. Then i decided we go get her friend. Felt pretty alpha at this point because i was leading her to do things.

At this point whats going through my head is i can really hope up to the expectations i set for myself. I dont usually do this so it felt new. Although it came natural. Having self doubt really hindered me tonight.

So back on the dance floor with the girl got a lot of iOis but i realize i wasnt going to kiss this woman due to the fact she looks 30. LOL so im dancing and i see that old set of 4 which is now 6 with twoHB6's added. So i decided to go dance and they gladly invite but they were dancing with two males.

As im dancing the alpha of the two guys was cutting me up getting in front of me as i would start dancing closer to the girls. He would start twerking on the girls. He would do this constantly every time i would approach, it looked kinda repetitive and after a while he made himself look sorta gay but i respected him for having the balls to do these things. Im really trying to hold back negative feelings. So after a while me and the wings are there dancing with just the three of us. Im looking for other sets to approach but all girls are taken. (mind delusion). So i really wanted to leave that spot on the floor due tot he fact that the guy was dancing with my set and i felt like just a floater. Im smart so i know if im no longer feeling the set i should leave(ego).

We go to grab a smoke and two girls come. They sorta float around me and i introduce by saying "this is where the parties at" (sarcasm). They laugh and they my friends actually strike up a convo with them, im actually shoved outside of the circle.

What i realize here is that i should have introduced them to my friends, and same with the other sets. They even failed to introduce me haha. But after a while my friends started running out of things to say (we're all noobies). Wing mentions we should go to a club i decided to approach one more girl.

She was sitting by herself on her phone i ask her "are you checking your stocks?" she laughs faking and then goes on to say she waiting for her friends, Her mom actually comes up and introduces her self. I then get the mom to proceed to take her daughter to the dance floor. From there im no longer feeling the set i tell my friends to leave and thats the night.

I felt pretty shut down after the one "alpha" came and took my set. I kinda felt like shit after which made me want to stop approaching.

Overall is see a lot of things i wouldnt have done before. Im proud of that. But there is always a lesson to learn.