How to keep equal investment in the woman but also showing that you like her?

Nothing_Gazes_Back · 2015-08-29T17:53:18+00:00

That's okay. There's a lot of contradiction in his book. It's great, but some parts require a bit of mental gymnastics.

As he states many times, needyness is death. Showing that you're interested but not needy is tricky at first but once you really embrace an abundance mentality it really makes sense.

By all means be engaging and interested, but don't devote too much time or attention to her. Bounce around a bit, engage with other people. She's not the only person you're interested in talking to when you're out. You don't need her to come home with you and you don't care if she does.

0verthere · 2015-08-29T21:37:59+00:00

What is the Mark Manson model?

2015-08-30T09:01:28+00:00

You see a girl you like, you walk up and say:

"Hi, I saw you standing here and thought you were beautiful. I'm (insert name)"

"Hi, we've know eachother for a while now. I think you're beautiful and I really enjoy our time together. Do you want to have coffee with me this Thursday?"

"Hi, I'm (insert name). You're very beautiful and I wanted to say hello."

If you are willing to open yourself up and be vulnerable, you're confident. If you refuse to ask her out because you're scared of rejection, you're over-invested. Vulnerability is a sign of confidence and self-security. These are the traits women look for.

Title	How to keep equal investment in the woman but also showing that you like her?
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Date	August 29, 2015 4:33 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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