20/M Moving from online/tinder messaging to in person approach. What are a few tips/things I should know?

paper-chase · 2015-09-12T04:57:39+00:00

your problem buddy is that you're only 20 and that you're trying to date schoolmates and not just ANY woman.

Your school may be 1/4, but I bet your city is the opposite.

Just go out to the park, concerts, and clubs and don't worry so much about "picking up girls" when you're that age.

I know this advice will fall on deaf ears and its probably not what you think you want to hear right now, but I wish somebody told me this when I was your age. Just focus on having fun and the women will follow.

glasseagle · 2015-09-12T05:49:37+00:00

It may sound a little wierd, but it worked for me; make eye contact. Make sure to look a fuel in the eyes when you talk with them, also while they are talking. Look them in the eyes and hold the gaze. Don't be creepy about it but it always seemed like after I started practicing this. Girls wrote more outgoing toward me and even guys seemed to respect me and be cooler.

WHAT_THE_ACTUAL_FVCK · 2015-09-12T13:57:41+00:00

Dont practice game in campus unless you're already decent at it

Title	20/M Moving from online/tinder messaging to in person approach. What are a few tips/things I should know?
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Date	September 12, 2015 4:40 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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