Hi /r/sedction,

Not so long ago I was a total virgin, and I wrote in a previous FR how I managed to get myself a girlfriend. I recommend you to read it because a) a lot of people enjoyed it, and b) it is related to this FR. Link to the FR.

In this post I will show you how I NC/KC/FC my new GF. I hope this will be helpful!

1) The Event

Like in my previous FR I went in an international event by myself, where there were a lot of foreigners trying to meet new friends. My goal was to get there early to introduce myself to a lot of people:

  • In the entry line, I talked with 2 guys
  • At the bar, I chatted with another guy
  • Then I joined a group of 3 people, which quickly increased in size

I did this in the first 20 minutes, this way I wasn't feeling "alone" because I already knew a lot of faces in this event. It's a great way to boost confidence.

2) Meeting The Girl - Part 1

Then I saw a cute girl by herself, typing of her smartphone. Let's call her Lisa. Without thinking too much I went to talk to her. I didn't do anything fancy, I just asked her a few questions and tried to be interesting.

After 15 minutes of small talk to build comfort, I left her to go talk to other people. That's basically a false time constraint.

I went to see some of the guys I meet earlier, who introduced me to new people, and I had a great time. Later I stumbled upon Lisa with some of her friends.

3) Meeting The Girl - Part 2

This time I focused on building attraction with some kino and eye contact. She was shy at first, but then she started to kino me back. That's when I told her that we should move to the dance floor:

  • First we danced in front of each other. Note that I have absolutely no idea how to dance, I was just moving awkwardly, but I was having fun.
  • I grabbed her hands so we could dance together. I made her spin a few times (my frist time ever doing that).
  • Then I put my arms around her hips, and she puts hers around my neck. We were basically hugging on the dance floor.
  • And I moved my head back, to see her face. I was waiting for her to look at me, and when she did with a nice smile, I went for the kiss. That was scary, but it worked!

20 minutes later she had to leave. I grabbed her phone number, and kissed her again in front of her friends.

4) The First Date

After exchanging a few SMS with Lisa I set up a first date, and things went very smoothly:

  • I hugged her when I saw her.
  • My hand on her back to guide her to the bar.
  • Once in the bar, lots of DHV and IOI.
  • Then I quickly sat on her side of the table for easy kino.

Since I already KC her previously, I had a lot of confidence. So I started playing with her hands, then had my arm on her thighs, and finally I kissed her. A lot. That was hot.

Long story short: I meet her a few days later in another bar, then we went to my place, and we quickly moved into my bed.

5) Conclusion

If I had to summarize what made this whole experience possible, I would say:

  • Go to events by yourself, it's scary but it works.
  • Try to introduce yourself to a lot of people quickly, it makes things so much easier.
  • You have to lead: you approach her, you ask her to dance, you go for the kiss, you set up the second date, etc.
  • And whatever you do, don't forget to have fun!

A year ago I would have said that kissing a girl you just meet is absolutely impossible. Now I feel like this is quite easy to do, so you can do it too!