A little long but totally worth it.

For a newbie learning to understand and display qualities during the attraction phase is difficult, however once you get the hang of it the comfort stage seems to be a wall. Sure you can develop attraction but how do I get this girl to be comfortable enough to hump a strangers (me) brains out? One thing in field that has never seemed to fail me is to really make her comfortable being herself. I want her to be comfortable with me but more importantly I want her to be comfortable in HER own skin WITH me. Its important to focus on the latter. Her whole life she is in a box of how she is to act and how she is to look but with ME I want to make her know that she is perfect the way she is with me. Anything that you can tell that she has insecurities about, bring them up and laugh about it! Show her that you could care less that she has a bigger nose or that she has squinty eyes, or the way her smile is crooked. Show her that you not only don't care but you appreciate these little flaws in her. Her entire life she has tried to hide these insecurities, make her feel like these insecurities make her especially cute or attractive. How do you think she is going to want to get naked and have the sex if she feels like a bag of dirt? ( certain cases yes but majority no) if she feels like a diamond she'll treat you like a King in the bedroom.

Conclusion

Attraction comes first and should always be present in the interaction, you should never put her on a pedestal and kiss her ass, BUT you need her to feel comfortable in her own skin. Little displays of this are crucial and remember a little bit goes a long way so please don't fucking over do it. Literally a few right words of accepting who she is is all it really takes. Shit is potent, if you overdo it you'll kill attraction, but don't be afraid to let her know you don't mind her flaws.