Hey guys, 21 year old college man here. So basically I met this beautiful girl on one of my classes. I have some experience with women so It was easy for me to flirt, kino, etc. We actually have good chemistry, talk a lot in class and after it.

One day I told her that we should go out and smoke pot some day. She agreed, but she decided, in that moment, to not go to her class and just smoke right now. The problem is that she brought her friend. So it ended up being the three of us smoking pot and eating some japanese food after that. I mean, the vibes I get from her are great. I 'know' when a girl is interested in me, but these thoughts dissapear when we text.

She just give me answers like: ''Hello :)'' ''Yes :p'' ''Good!''. It was painful to watch the convo on my phone. I don't think it's because I dont know ''how to text'', because ive done it a lot of times, and it just seems like she is not interested at all in me when I see the way she texts me.

One day, after class, I told her we should go smoke some more another day, She said: ''Sure, or maybe we could go to the movies toguether''. It was fine for me, so I said yea, alright. This happened on friday, I send her a voice message on sunday telling her about the movie thing. And she didn't respond. That, for me, just seemed like a ''I don't want to date you'' signal.

Nex week, in class we talked like that never happened. I was expecting some kind of explanation, but she didnt say a thing. I didnt ask either.We had a test that same day. I finished earlier than her and usually I would wait for her outside the classroom, but I decided to leave. I think that it'll seem so fucking needy, to even wait for her after what happened.

Now I won't see her, till next week. And this is where I need your advice. Should I tell her straigth to the face, that I like her and see where it goes from there? or maybe ask her about the text thing and, also tell her that I want to know where do I stand, If she likes me or not, so I stop wasting my time trying make real something that will never happen.

There was this gilr that I approached on the bus some time ago that told me: '' Girls like being chased, before my boyfriend got me, I rejected him, so many times, ignored his texts and phone calls, because I knew he was a player, but at the end we ended up together because he tried''.

I don't know how exactly true this might be, but if thats really true, I think it's fucked up. Usually when a girl just showed me a signal of desinterest or, would reject a kiss on a first date, i'd just dissapear from her life. But now,I don't want to just let her go or dissapear, because I actually like her as a friend also, she is a little bit like me in certain ways. Thanks for reading this, and, also, sorry for the bad english.