My H has a male co-worker....he came over to the house last night, they had a serious talk about his relationship about his wife. I wasn't invited to the convo but I did my best to serve expresso and sweets intermittently so I could 'hear' the juicy details. My H is hopelessly blue pill. I'm RPW so here's the breakdown.

Great guy ....he's helped my H with a lot oh home projects. We wanted brick patio this guy mapped it all out for my H and they installed it. I wanted to change the chandler in my parlor.....this guy did it. He's just the go to guy at work. My H adores him, looks up to him.

Here's the gist of his marriage. They've been married awhile , no kids. She's got no girl game, no cooking. She works FT. Perhaps a bit moody. He's done everything to push her in the right direction. He's smitten with a girl at the office. I'm like, really. lol!

He wants to leave but of course, he's got guilt. I don't think this co worker has effected the marriage at all. He's very aware of what he wants, he articulates it well....and no I didn't put a glass up to the door.H spilled a bit of it. The weirdest thing is.....his wife is giving him a "hall pass". I think , ironically he's a bit offended by this. He might be a bit RP in his thinking.....No mate guarding on her part , probably leaving him feeling undesired.

I wish I could talk to him with my RP hat, but it's completely inappropriate for me to over step my bounds in a troubled marriage.

What do you RP folks think he should do?