If I meet a girl through social circle I can't seem to get out of the habit of just going with the conversation, taking about occupation, hobbies or whatnot. I have no clue how to talk from a man to woman frame, or how to turn the conversation sexual and let her know I want to bang her. If I'm doing cold approaches, I have no problem. I open with the fact that I thought they were pretty/or whatever comes to mind, and the frame is set straight away. However I have no clue how to game outside of gaming, if that makes sense.