Hi all. So my situation as follows: Ive always been good with ladies, but Ive always preferred girlfriends, as in partners, not just quick flings. During my relationships I have (other) girls tell me I´m handsome, touch/tease me, flirting, one fell in love with me(bad story), I enjoyed the attention but I´m no cheater.

Now my relationship status changed to open and Im free to pursue like in my single days. Here is my problem: I dont know how to escalate that fast. I may have a good starting point, but I build it up slowly and my only ONS before my current relationship is years ago and she was really into me and asked me to stay at my place, so no real work on my part.

I got the confidence part down, I really dislike routines, more of organic growth type. But even with interested girls I honestly have no idea how to speed up things so much and to close in one evening. Probably because I´m still in my "slow, looking for gf" mentality. Which works wonders if you dont have "I wanna fuck you" written all over your forehead. What are your tips or experiences with on that matter?