Hello gentlemen,

I seek advice on a path to take for a girl I'm interested in.

Backstory: She is air force. I completely botched my first time getting into it with her and spent money on a huge date (Front seat tickets to Wicked as a surprise) where nothing happened aside from kissing a few times. My biggest problem was the "Hey, I like you" and not letting actions speak instead.

This was all before I started doing research to PUA techniques and realized why my interactions with women and relationships were going so poorly is because I was always the pleaser.

Around a month back, I became much more scarce for her and aloof (she has me on facebook) aside from her messaging here and there. The wrench of the situation that prompted me back on trying again is that she found out she is staying in town and not moving to Korea after all.

What do? Wait 'til she prompts to meet up? Ask her for a coffee and escalate? Move on and accept the damage has been done?

Thanks gents