Got in touch with a girl via POF, how long to wait until I ask her for a date?

bjade27 · 2015-11-19T22:50:59+00:00

Idk what pof is but I met my bf on tinder and we have been together for over a year. When we started talking on chat he had asked me what I like to do for fun and we bonded over a mutual love for playing pool. So he asked if I wanted to meet up and play pool sometime. 2 days later we went out to a bar/pool hall a little early so we beat the crowd and noise and were able to have a good conversation. The date took off from there and we've been together ever since! :) so basically what I'm saying is find out what she likes to do and ask her to go do that activity.

2015-11-20T08:33:04+00:00

I heard that plenty of fish is awful, but if my tinder experience is relevant in anyway, I just like asking girls out now, you don't really need to wait.

Right now, you have a high value, and the more time you invest could be time that she's fading out of your text game isn't there or she has more options. If it's a reasonable time of day, just ask if she wants to meet up and get coffee later/tomorrow or a time good for you.

Title	Got in touch with a girl via POF, how long to wait until I ask her for a date?
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Date	November 19, 2015 9:29 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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