Firstly, this looks like an interesting sub. I've only just discovered it but I made some life changes recently and a lot of what I see on here makes sense. Anyway...
Since September I've been working a boring office job. And I truly mean boring. The one and only highlight of the past few months had been this beautiful girl who works there. My job isn't exactly the most sociable one though, so I had never talked to her. I just occasionally smiled if I passed by, like with any other stranger.
Fast forward to a week or so back, and randomly I bump into her at a bar. She comes up to me, we introduce ourselves, get a few drinks and end up hanging out and dancing there for a few hours. We were getting pretty flirty and whatnot, and I'm pretty sure she got the message I liked her as I wasn't being that subtle. She was kind of playing along too and I could've taken the chance to make out with her, but just didn't commit to it. A mistake I regret.
My question is...what now? Though we now know each other a little, our contact is still limited to the occasional times we meet in the hallways which is lame. And yet at the same time, I'm also kind of grateful that I'm not working right next to her all day and carrying out the usual shitty small talk and running out of things to say.
I don't want her to forget about me, and yet I don't want to become another one of her boring workmates. In a different environment with a few drinks inside us both, there'd be no problems. But how can I keep her intrigued when she sees me every day? How can I act flirty in an office space? Any advice on how to keep her interested?
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