Got a girl's number and a date. She agreed to it but she wants it one week from now. How do I keep the texting game strong for one week?

EclipsingVoid · 2015-12-27T08:47:31+00:00

Try and avoid texting if you don't feel like you have the skills to maintain attraction through texting. It's usually best to keep texting to setting up dates for this reason. If she keeps texting you, try and respond after some time has passed, 15 minutes to a few hours, whatever you feel comfortable with. In my experience, only negatives can come from texting too much before going on a date, but then again, my texting game isn't top tier. And as you said, if she has good energy and conversation skills, it should be easy to play off each other if you want to take that route as well.

2015-12-27T08:53:32+00:00

Here's the deal. Do what's comfortable for you. I tend to text a lot and fast so I preface the conversation with that. The key is to not make it awkward and try not to feel anxious about timing of replies.

She's interested in you. That's the hard part. Generally we overthink it but really it's basic honesty that keeps the momentum of conversation. Find things that are genuinely interesting to you in the conversation and talk about them, it'll carry it self.

Do not stress about how long it takes to text back or when you should reply. If you say something and start to get anxious just put your phone down.

forsience · 2015-12-27T18:15:37+00:00

in my book, less is more. i simply arange dates over text and let her know that i'm calling/texting her if plans change. otherwise i'm living my life and let her life hers -> more time for improving myself, doesn't take away conversation topics, makes you look busy (and you should actually be)... and i'm not an entertainer ;)

buckminster_fuller · 2015-12-27T21:55:26+00:00

Texting is hard because you cant make her "feel" very much, which is what matters. Ask questions, but dont make it an interrogatory, say the least about yourself(keep the mistery until you get more progress), if you have a nice tone send voice notes, and always take a little more time than her to answer, but dont take forever!

troybuddy81 · 2015-12-27T09:53:03+00:00

Dumb ass. Quit trying to get her to like you. If she didn't she wouldn't go in the first place. Don't ask too much. You won't have anything to talk about when u go

Title	Got a girl's number and a date. She agreed to it but she wants it one week from now. How do I keep the texting game strong for one week?
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Date	December 27, 2015 8:37 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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